Have you ever heard about women said “I love him because he is so funny”?
Yes, I often hear
it. I (as a girl) also like someone with good sense of humor. Many girls choose
a boy who has good sense of humor even if he is not handsome or not rich. So,
if you are not handsome or rich, try to be funny boy. And feel some girls love
you~
How
could it be?
“Your sense
of humor is one of the most powerful tools you have to make certain that your
daily mood and emotional state support good health.” ~ Paul E. McGhee, Ph.D.
The site
helpguide.org also wrote that Humor and playful
communication strengthen our relationships by triggering positive feelings and fostering emotional connection. When we
laugh with one another, a positive bond is created. This bond acts as a strong
buffer against stress, disagreements, and disappointment.
Humor can foster
emotional connection, so it can make girls more attracted with someone with
good sense of humor. I tried to prove it. Then I chatted with two boys at the
same time, there were a serious boy and a funny boy. I treated them in same
way. After some time, I stopped chatting with serious boy. Why? Because we only
did asking and answering questions, there was no emotional connection. Contrary,
I chatted with funny boy for some hours. Why? Because the conversation is alive
and so interesting, so the result is I was attracted more with funny boy.
I got from helpguide.org:
Humor can help you and your loved one:
- Form a stronger bond to each other. Your health and happiness depend, to a large degree, on the quality of your relationships—and laughter binds people together.
- Smooth over differences. Using gentle humor often helps you address even the most sensitive relationship issues, such as sex or in-laws.
- Diffuse tension. A well-timed joke can ease a tense situation and help you resolve disagreements.
- Overcome problems and setbacks. A sense of humor is the key to resilience. It helps you take hardships in stride, weather disappointment, and bounce back from adversity and loss.
- Put things into perspective. Most situations are not as bleak as they appear to be when looked at from a playful and humorous point of view. Humor can help you reframe problems that might otherwise seem overwhelming and damage a relationship.
- Be more creative. Humor and playfulness can loosen you up, energize your thinking, and inspire creative problem solving for any relationship issue.
Those mean that
humor has many benefits in the relationship. And girls also love funny guys. This
doesn't mean I force you to change be funny person, at least you can look this
life more interesting with humor. Take yourself less seriously guys.
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