Dating is
important moment for us. We want all the things are perfect. But most of us
forget one thing. What is it? It is . . . conversation ideas.
Yes, it is
important part when dating. I am sure you have ever had silent moment when
dating. And it always happens when you meet new person. In that time, you have
already talked about your hobbies, your families and your jobs and nothing else
come into your mind and she is not really helping you. Then it’s time for
silent moment. You don’t know what you should talk about, neither her. Ouh …
It’s so horrible~
Here, I give
you some tips to avoid or get over these horrible moments. Sounds good?
Okay, check
this out guys,
1. Compliment
her
You have to
remember that you are meeting new person. Of course, she will not share you
everything in the beginning. So, the only one no risk thing to say is to
compliment her. You try to make her know that you like her by making a
compliment. But find something that you really find attractive about her, about
her lifestyle or her personality. She will become more confident and more open
to share her believes.
2. Asking
open questions
Conversation
is always related with questions. Which question will you use?
My favorites
questions are “why” and “how” questions. Why I like these question tags? It’s because
these will make your partner sharing their topic. They will feel you are interested in what they
tell about. You can use these frequently without being annoying.
It will be
better if you learn a little about girls’ topic. You can explore about many
topics and she will likely answer your questions. You also have to remember
that you still need to think carefully what you can ask about. It will be worse
if you ask wrong question about girls.
3. Listen,
listen, and listen.
When you got
her interest to talk, it’s really good time! But I am sure, you will don’t think
so. How could it be?
Usually men
don’t like to listen to the girl about what she talked about (they think it is
boring). In this case, the girl starts sharing her interest to her men. It means
she is comfortable to talk with him. But many men lose interest or bring the
conversation back to themselves. This is one of the biggest mistake men are
doing all the time.
They also
like to exchange jokes and anecdotes and spend a fair amount of time playing
one-up and boasting. Stop doing that!!!
Allow HER to
have HER points of view, while you have yours. Men have felt like they have
either had to abandon their own beliefs in order to try to get a woman, OR they
had to fight with women about what they believe in. Both approaches lead to
failure.
She is not
there with you just to hear about your hero “qualities”, but to have a great
time!
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