What drive men to cheat?

I usually hear that women blame men when find out the infidelity. They do not actually think what the reason is and what men are looking for when they cheat. When a man thinks about cheating it's likely that he's not happy about the relationship he's in and/or that something is missing. Let’s think about what I will tell you.
Five things men are looking for when they cheat:
1. Emotional connection.
Men always want to have highest power in the relationship. When you always be selfish and forget about his power (as obvious as the "I'm Right"/"No, I'm Right" conversation), it’s time that he feels he missed his power. It also happens when he tries to tell you something, but you don’t listen to him. These make him get quiet and distant and grumpy. Finally, he feels there is no emotional connection anymore.
When he meets someone new that accept him for “who he is” and let him be the highest power in everything. It’s much easier to make him feel connected and choose to cheat on you because he got what he wants.
2. Appreciation
                Men loved to be appreciated, but they never want to ask for it. However, women actually know, but often forget about it. They feel that they don’t need to appreciate a small thing because have been together for years. It is wrong perception! Women have to appreciate all the things for their lovers, even if they have been together for years. What women usually do is give a heavy dose of blame and critics. It makes men try to find positive affirmations from others. With the new person, he will get new love and appreciation. He will feel everything is wonderful in new relationship.
3. Intimacy
As I stated before, men always want to be listened and he also want a partner that will listen to him in everything. Men are actually so weak. They always go to their spouse to talk about everything. In another hand, their spouse thinks that she already knows everything and doesn’t listen to him anymore. That is the problem.
                In new relationship, everything is new and interesting to be listened, so the feeling of intimate connection is created.
4. Feeling wanted
The more often woman feel wanted her man, her man will feel that he is important and needed. That is what men want. Men tend to be socialized to provide security and strength as an expectation, rather than something to be appreciated for. As life moves along a man can often feel like his contribution is taken for granted and who he is, as opposed to what he can provide, becomes less important. In a new relationship suddenly he matters again.
5. Sex

As we know that men love sex and always want the better and new sex. With new partner, he will feel new feeling that is different. Moreover, having sex will be done often in new relationship. Sex is one way that men feel connected to their partner. Men also feel appreciated and wanted when they have sex with their partner.

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