Will the marriage come to be your
happiness or sadness? It depends on you!
Sometimes marriage life seems horrible,
because there are lots of couple divorces. Many reasons are behind the divorce.
It can be because of arguing, cheating, money, sex, etc. But,
those don’t stop couples deciding to marry. We only think about happy marriage.
However hard it is, as long as with our spouse we will always be happy. Sadly,
the fact says contrary.
The new life begins after the honeymoon.
Marriage lifestyle is not like what you imagine. Well, let’s say it is far away
from the exciting. How could it be? Okay, let’s think about this, you live with
someone that you loved for your entire life. It means you live with the same
person for around 50 years, 365 days a year. Can you make different activities
everyday? Of course you cannot. You make the same routine activities everyday, after
that both of you will face the time that you feel so bored, lots of arguments,
etc.
As a result, it is vital that couples not simply sit back in the
belief that a marriage will remain exciting, merely on its own momentum.
Rather, it is important that spouses take some basic steps to infuse their
relationships with a bit of excitement.
1. Having new interest
You cannot have anything interesting to say if you spend every
waking moment doing and experiencing the same things. You can try to do
something new that you never been doing. It means that you have something new
and unique to bring to conversations, ensuring that you both always have
something interesting, and yes exciting, to say to one another.
2. Spontaneous event
As the marriage come to 3 years or more,
we feel comfortable with our marriage and nothing is new. We just live as
usual, doing the same routine activities everyday. Moreover we are busy with
life’s obligations. As a result, we have a tendency to rely upon the strength of
our relationships and in so doing fail to keep things spontaneous. So to mix
things up; plan an afternoon or evening event that is completely new. You can try
showing your spouse that will make his/her dying to see, or visit that new
restaurant that just opened up.
3. Never threaten separation
It is better if both of you never say to divorce, although there
is a big argument between you. The relationship will make you happy if both of
you never think about divorce. Even if you have been arguing with your spouse and
it made you hurt, never threaten separation to him/her. Even, make it as a rule
between you and your spouse that both of you can’t threat separation however
hard the situation is. Just remember that arguing, misunderstanding, lack of
trust, etc are a part of all marriages.
4. Weekend Trips
Marriage will not bring the happiness without romance. Do you
agree?
Well, to bring the romance, it needs ideas. I am sure that you
will not get the idea everyday or even every week. So what you need is you
search on internet every two weeks or once a month. Search about the best place
for vocation, just local vocation and only two of you. Plan it as well as
possible and also make romantic dinner with the ending in a hotel.
5. Spice up the bedroom
The final tip to bring excitement into any relationship is to
spice things up in the bedroom. This is the most important part of marriage.
Your sex life has a strong correlation with the strength and satisfaction of
your relationship. Doing the same position every night is so boring. There are
hundreds of sex positions that you can try. So try exploring a new position or
even a sexual fantasy or adult toy with your partner, and in so doing share
something intimate and bring some excitement into your marriage. You can find
everything on internet, so why don’t you search new position on it. :)
That’s all the tips for
having happy marriage and exciting. Everything will not work if you do not do
any actions and all is depends on your action towards your spouse.
Thank you for reading :)
Thank you for reading :)
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