Talking to a guy? Talk about what?

Hello Star Relationships,

I’m interested with a guy, but he didn’t start any conversation with me. Can I start the conversation? But how? I don’t know what I should talk about. Please help me, thanks.

OUR RESPOND

Hello, thank you for asking us.

First, yes you can start the conversation with him. Most of girls think that the guy who have to make the first move. And a lot of time, guy does – but if he doesn’t do it for long time, will you only wait him? until when?

You know a guy will always appreciate you if you start talking to him and he will think you are friendly girl. 

• First of all, you can break the ice by giving compliment to him.

Example, (at the class) “(his name), you are handsome today with your shirt. It’s a great color . .”

The most important is you have to keep this in your mind: “if a guy doesn’t make the first move, it doesn’t mean that he isn’t interested in you”

You have to always think about it and it will make you more confidence to start a conversation with any guy you like.

• Second, you need to keep the conversation flowing.

This is the most important and hardest part, right? I’ll give you some questions ideas, but you need to remember that LISTEN to your guy is the key.

To show that you are listening to him:

• “That’s so interesting. Tell me more.”
• “Wow, I never knew that. How did you learn about that?”

And here are some questions that you can use:

• What’s the one thing you like about yourself the most?
• Do you have any phobias? Is there something that totally scares you that you might not want to admit to everyone?

• What was the happiest time in your life?
• Do you have a passion or a goal for yourself, that you don’t usually tell other people about? What is it?
• If I could wave a magic wand and give you any talent that you currently don’t have, what would it be?

You can try those questions and see how amazing this question to keep the conversation flowing. 

I write this advice based on the book “The Instant Infatuation Formula: How To Use “Seductive Conversation” To Make Any Man Desire and Obsess About You” by Samantha Sanderson. In her book, there are a lot of questions idea and also many techniques that surely will make boys interested in you. The book is one of PENGUIN METHOD formulas. If you want to get the copy of this book, you need to like our facebook’s page here. And contact us to know the requirement to get the copy.

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