Cheating or having an affair?
hmmm, I often hear this problem from my friends and they were usually confused what to do. Should they leave or forgive their partner? or even cheat too?
Let's discuss about this. I will give you some options to do.
1. Leave Him
I always give this advise to my friends because I think that men who cheat will always do cheating again and again when they feel uncomfortable. Usually men give a reason why they did it and it is about your mistake. Finally, they will use the same reason again and again when you do same mistake.
You will say "He said that he will not do it again and he will change". then I will answer "Do you believe it?" "Yes, I believe". THINK about this: since first time you were in relationship with him, you trust in him, but in fact he broke it. Giving second chance? Yes, you can. but I don't guarantee that he will change, Maybe he will change to be more careful to let you know his SECRET. REMEMBER this! Men who can't be faithful DON'T really love you. Leave him, move on then find new boy~
2. Give second chance
This advise is for you who love your man so much. You can give him second chance, but you have to ask yourself first if you want to be with your man. You have to remember that there is no third chance. If you found him cheat again, leave him!
What you should do now is you have to repair your relationship. Respect him more, care him more, listen to him more, etc. Do continuously. Don't ever think because you have been together with him for years you don't need to give the same portion of attention. It's wrong! Do the same portion continuously forever. He is your love.
3. Do cheating too
This advise is for you who have a closed mindset. Perhaps you think you want to do revenge. If so, what is the different between you and him? you are all betrayers! Even by cheating, he can blame you more and he will not feel guilty. Finally, you break up uncomfortably.
You can choose what you want to do. I know that leaving someone that we loved is so hard, but we also deserve someone who is loyal.
-Trizza Rizjkita-
You can choose what you want to do. I know that leaving someone that we loved is so hard, but we also deserve someone who is loyal.
-Trizza Rizjkita-
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