Quarreling in relationship often happens. If you don't know the good way to solve your problem, probably your relationship will go to be worse. Here,I will tell you the worst ways to solve your problem that might go to break up.
1. Angry in Public Area
have you ever been angry to your lover in public area? maybe some girls think that being angry in the public area will stop quarreling at that time. Even, some girls scream at her lover in public area to make her lover give in. Probably some guys will give in, but it doesn't mean that your problem is solved. No, it is not! you only delay your problem to come out again later. It is better to you to solve your problem with discussion. Discuss your problem together, what's wrong and how to make it clear.
2. Tell Everyone
Some people often share their problems to their friends. They do it to find the solutions from their friends, but in fact they don't get any suitable solution and only let anyone knows the problems. When your lover knows that everyone knows your relationship problems, he/she will be more angry to you because not all lovers like if you tell anyone about your problems. when you have problem, it is better to evaluate yourself and talk together about the problem.
3. Say Sorry To Make Her/His Lover Is Faster To Calm Down
Some boys say sorry to make her girlfriend stop being angry, but they don't know the reason why she is angry. they only think that say sorry will make everything is okay. No, it is not! you still do not know what is your problem and you do not solve it yet.
4. Blaming Each Other
When quarreling, many couples are blaming to each other. No one wants to be person who is wrong. Actually a problem comes from both of you, one person make a fault and another one makes it to be a problem. If that person doesn't think that it is a problem, it will not be a problem, but only be a fault. Try to focus on the problem and talk together. When both of you are still emotional, it is better to stay away to think about the root of the problem and then you can discuss it.
5. Lying
Most of girls will be angry on anything. When her boy asks what the problem is, usually she says nothing happened or no problem. Lying like this only makes you don't get the solution or makes the problem bigger. Try to be honest and mature in solving the problem. Talking together calmly and honestly will make our lover knows what we expected from her/him.
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