True Story Why You Don’t Need to Look For a Wealthy Man

Do you look for your husband-to-be from his money? Are you sure that it is the most important part for your marriage life? Here I will tell you my story about my wealthy man.

This story is taken based on my own relationship. I accepted him because he is wealthy. He is not so wealthy. He only has his own apartment, car and good position in career (high salary). Some of you may think those are the minimum that man should have before marriage. But I think differently!

Let’s start the story . . .

I was in the relationship with him because of his money and I thought I would live well with him. I didn’t love him at first and I didn’t know him well. As time goes by, I felt in love with him and he loved me too. But I still looked at his money. In the first 3 months, he said that he would get promotion in his career, even he would work abroad. It sounded good. I imagined that I wouldn’t live poorly and will live in luxurious.

A week after he told me that his apartment was burn because he forgot to turn off the stove. Finally, he lost his apartment. Was it so bad? Yes I was so shocked about it. A week after that, he was fired. He lost his job! I didn’t know what happened. He was so depressed and so did I. I felt he broke my dream. Unfortunately, he was so pessimistic, so he didn’t trust in himself that he could face this problem. Finally, he lost everything because he broke me up. It was really in the worst situation. I couldn’t do anything. I already motivated him, but he kept his decision. Then we broke up.

I felt that God’s punished me because I only looked at his money to accept his love.

The lesson that we can take from this story is money can go and come at any time. Wealthy man will not always be wealthy man. He can lose his money at any time. Even you can’t guarantee that he will always be wealthy. He may get fired or bankrupt at any time. Who’s know?

So, the conclusion is that you don’t need to look for a wealthy man, but you need to look for high motivated man. Why need a motivated man? wait until next post :).

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Real story: Controlling Emotion Will Make You Have Long-Lasting Relationship

Have you ever had a problem with your anger? Even you broke up because of it?  Yes, it’s very common that you break up because of angriness. Do you want it always happens? Of course you don’t.

Here, I will give you the examples that really happened to me (my real stories) about my angriness. I really want to share my story and tell you the truth, so you can take the lessons from it and have a long-lasting relationship. Sounds good?

My story is in long distance relationship, but I think every couple can have the same problem. You know exactly how hard long distance relationship is, it is really hard! It has lots of angriness, misunderstanding, lack of trust, etc. Fortunately, I can handle it when I realized that angriness destroys my relationship. Are you ready to read my story?

Well, here is my story…

One day (I forgot about the date) I sent him a message on viber. After few hours, he didn’t reply me yet. I was so worried, so I sent him messages again and all over again. One more time, he didn’t reply me. I saw he was online, but he didn’t reply me! Then I calmed myself down. I just kept my mind positively, might he was busy.

                One day two days was gone, he still didn’t reply me. I was so worried about him! Then, I started to send him some weird messages. I was so so so angry to him! These were my messages “why don’t you reply me? I think you don’t like if I send you messages L”, “Okay, I will not send you message anymore, even you never reply me!”. I sent those kinds of messages again and again. After some time, he replied me! But what he said? He said “I was busy baby, I am so sorry” “but if you don’t want to talk to me anymore, I will go from your life”. Then he continued that he wanted to break me up.

                I was shocked with his respond.  The only reason I sent those messages was I just wanted him to reply me, but I fell to this problem. Fortunately, I could handle this problem and we didn’t break up. This problem really drove me to break up. It was crazy!

                I showed my angriness with hoping he would calm me down or showering me lots of his attention. In fact, it NEVER happens!

After I realized it, I changed the way I treat my boyfriend. I am no longer angry to him, even if he doesn’t reply me or come online sometime. I prefer to send him lovely messages than angry message. I sent this message “I hope when I open my eyes, I see your messages”. Do you know what his respond? He send me message “One thing don’t forget it I LOVE YOU”. So, it is better for you to control your emotion. If you don’t like he does something, you can tell him lovely. He will understand and even love you more.

Keep this on your mind and talk to yourself “BETTER IF I LOST ARGUMENT THEN I LOST HIM”.

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Girls look for a boyfriend/husband, what will they see?

Hello, Star Relationships.

I am so curious about what the girls look from a man to be their bf or husband and why. Let’s say they look from money, body, style, personality, etc. but what are the exact things that girls see?

Our respond:

Hello, thank you for asking us :)

There are many things that girls will see from a man. First, I will tell you what the girls see from the man’s personalities.

1. A good sense of humor

Girls really like a man with good sense of humor because such man will bring them into happiness and of course that man will make girls comfort around him. Read the deep reason here

2. Kindness and compassion

Girls will be melted with a man who cares for others because girls use their heart than their brain. When you touch her heart, exactly you’ll win her heart. Every girl will be touched with man’s kindness and compassion. Even if they don’t love you, they will adore you.

3. Intelligence

Intelligence is important part because man will be a leader in the marriage’s life and the girls are aware about it. The man needs to decide a decision in many important moments, so girls need intelligence man. Exactly girls will adore you.

Now, I’ll tell you about the things that girls will see from a man’s treatment toward them.

1. Curiosity

Girls like a man who will ask questions and really want to know anything about her. When man asks many things about her, she will think that the man is really interested in her and she will feel your attention. The girls will always appreciate the man’s efforts to get to know something about her.  She will be surprised when she knows that you already know something about her before she tells you.

2. Remember the small things

Girls always remember about the small things, like the date that she and you met in the first time, remember every single words that you told her, etc. How’s about men? Unfortunately, some men don’t pay attention about it. Actually, the girls will be more interested and adore a man who remembers things that she said ages ago, moreover if it was a really small thing. 100% she will adore you because you show your attention to her and remember it.

3. Jealousy

Girls will also like if you are jealous, but not too much just a little jealousy. A man just need to give a hint of jealousy, it’s enough to show that you care.

4. Do NOT talk about sex and getting inappropriate.

Yes, sex is interesting topic, but usually men will addicted with that topic then will always talk about it. It’s not good from girls’ perspective. It doesn't mean that girls don’t like sex, but it’s just embarrassing to talk about it.

5. Take control

This doesn’t mean over protective man, but the man who knows when he has to take control of his girl. For example he said “we’ll go out today, be ready and dress appropriately” or “I’ll pick you up now, don’t go anywhere”. Those manners, definitely girls will feel that you protect her and of course she will feel safe with you.

GOOD LUCK!
MAY YOU ARE ONE OF THEM! :)

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Talking to a guy? Talk about what?

Hello Star Relationships,

I’m interested with a guy, but he didn’t start any conversation with me. Can I start the conversation? But how? I don’t know what I should talk about. Please help me, thanks.

OUR RESPOND

Hello, thank you for asking us.

First, yes you can start the conversation with him. Most of girls think that the guy who have to make the first move. And a lot of time, guy does – but if he doesn’t do it for long time, will you only wait him? until when?

You know a guy will always appreciate you if you start talking to him and he will think you are friendly girl. 

• First of all, you can break the ice by giving compliment to him.

Example, (at the class) “(his name), you are handsome today with your shirt. It’s a great color . .”

The most important is you have to keep this in your mind: “if a guy doesn’t make the first move, it doesn’t mean that he isn’t interested in you”

You have to always think about it and it will make you more confidence to start a conversation with any guy you like.

• Second, you need to keep the conversation flowing.

This is the most important and hardest part, right? I’ll give you some questions ideas, but you need to remember that LISTEN to your guy is the key.

To show that you are listening to him:

• “That’s so interesting. Tell me more.”
• “Wow, I never knew that. How did you learn about that?”

And here are some questions that you can use:

• What’s the one thing you like about yourself the most?
• Do you have any phobias? Is there something that totally scares you that you might not want to admit to everyone?

• What was the happiest time in your life?
• Do you have a passion or a goal for yourself, that you don’t usually tell other people about? What is it?
• If I could wave a magic wand and give you any talent that you currently don’t have, what would it be?

You can try those questions and see how amazing this question to keep the conversation flowing. 

I write this advice based on the book “The Instant Infatuation Formula: How To Use “Seductive Conversation” To Make Any Man Desire and Obsess About You” by Samantha Sanderson. In her book, there are a lot of questions idea and also many techniques that surely will make boys interested in you. The book is one of PENGUIN METHOD formulas. If you want to get the copy of this book, you need to like our facebook’s page here. And contact us to know the requirement to get the copy.

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If I Ignore a Girl, Will I Get Her Attention?

I got this question 2 days ago from a boy (secret name)
I’ll answer with my perspective as a girl.

(?) If I Ignore a girl, will I get her attention? What will she do? How will she feel?

My answers are:

Ignoring the girl you like will only make her thinks bad things towards you.

She will think that:

• ·         You were never interested in her

Why? It’s because girls think that every boy will catch girl. The one who will play hard to get is a girl, so don’t ignore her or you will not get her. But if you find a girl who ignores you, it means you have to be harder to get her, shower her with your attention. Then I am sure you will get her.

• ·         You were just playing on her

Girls will think that you are not interested in her and you are only playing on her. You make yourself look like a playboy who flirts to her then leaves her.

• ·         You found someone else

Girls also know if a boy will not only have one girl that he likes. If the boy really likes one girl and he wants to get her, he will catch girl and never ignore that girl. So, if you ignore a girl you only make her confused then she will have a bad expectation of you.

• ·         She did something wrong

Girls usually have many experiences with boys and every time they get ignored from a boy, it usually because she did something wrong that make the boy going away. Then, when she realizes that she didn't do anything wrong, she'll think you're a stupid boy and playing on her

Those all that girls will think if you ignore her. She most likely would just give up on you.

So, my conclusion is, DO NOT DO THIS, DON’T EVER. You are a boy, catch her and show her how much you care of her. Girls always fall in love with a guy who gives her lot of his attention.

GIRLS’ MINDSET: “BOY CATCHS GIRL”

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7 Signs He Is Interested in You

Are you currently interested in a guy that you see regularly but having problems understanding for sure whether he might interested in you? It can be annoying not understanding whether he may feel the same feelings as yours. Do you want to read his mind? There are a variety of revealing signs that he is probably very interested in you.

Those 7 signs are:

Sign #1: He often uses your name when talking to you. If he is interested in you, your name will be a music in his mind and he likes to say it often.  It means you are dominating his mind

Sign #2: He tends to sweep up against or get in touch with you: Those little simple styling brushes in the corridor or touch your shoulder are not by unplanned. They are his methods to be closer to you and are a prelude to be more romantic actual touching.

Sign #3: He ignores you. This sign means he is unsure about your feeling towards him, so he ignores you sometimes. Maybe he is nervous when talking to you and doesn’t know what to say. Or he is not ready to let you know he likes you.

Sign #4: He doesn’t want to tell you about his love life. You think you are his friend but actually he want to be more than friends, so he will not tell you about his love. It is because he is trying to secure your emotions and also that he is trying not slow down the chance of relationship you later on.

Sign #5: He doesn’t want to talk with another girl when you are around. If there are some sexy girls around him but his eyes only stare at you. That is a big sign that he is interested in you

Sign #6: He tries to see your response first when he makes a joke: If you are in a team scenario and he informs what he believes is a crazy laugh, he will run his first eye get in touch with after the point to the person on whom he has a grind.

Sign #7: His best friend asks you about your love life. Do you discover that his friends have asked you about it? They may be trying to discover out more details and then providing it to him so that he can always know about your love life.

Well, those are the signs that you can try to discover from now. When you know about his feeling, do your action to make him fall to you.

Good Luck~

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6 Easy Steps: Writing Your Romantic Love Letter

Are you confused what you want to do for Valentine’s Day or your anniversary? How if you write a love letter? Oh, you have ever done it, but it took a long time to write. I am sure this happened to you:

You wanted to write about your feeling, but you stuck staring at a blank screen or blank letter and finally you stopped writing it. Or you often deleted what you wrote and start again from beginning? You may think why is it so hard to write your feeling toward him? Is it hard to find the exact words for describing your love? Or you think that your love is more than words? Actually, with words you can make your lover feels your love.

Naturally, all people want to be loved, but we are busy with our selves. We are too much thinking about money and less concern about convey our love. Am I true? We think that people who closest to us know about how much we love them. In fact, the people we loved don’t know about it.

So do you want to convey your love now and make your lover feels how much you love him/her? Okay, let’s start~

These are easy steps for you, so you can write it and be so romantic~

1. Write 5 things about what love from you lover.

You have to write as specific as possible. If you write that he/she is a kind person, write also the details about how he/she is kind.

2. Write 5 things about his/her attention to you.

These will touch your lover feeling. Don’t forget to give examples. The attentions can be like she/he gave you a hug when you felt frustrated or she/he cooked you food when you were sick or anything.

3. Choose the best six examples from those 10 things above.

After you listing 10 things, you choose 3 things from each category above and write them into your love letter. You can start by calling her/his name and then tell how much you love her/his. After that you tell her/his 3 things from the first point, you can start saying with “I love you how you…” but don’t forget the details. Then you write about 3 things from the second point, you can start saying “I loved the way you . . .” and don’t forget about the details too.  

Example from first point:

Baby, I love everything about you. I love how you kind to people, you always smile at office boys in our campus and always give your help to our friends.

Example from second point:

Baby, do you remember when you hugged me last time? It was my hardest time, but you gave me comfortable feelings in that time with your hug. I loved the way you cheer me up.

4. Improve your words.

After you write your love letter, you have to read it again and again. Make sure that your letter is the best. You have to edit your letter until you feel that your feeling is in the letter. After one or two days, you can read it again for a final editing.

5 Buy some special papers.

Special paper will make your letter more romantic and special. Don’t worry, I am sure your lover will appreciate your handwriting. Writing is better than typing. Handwriting will make your letter more personal and priceless.

6. Plan about how you deliver this letter.

You have to think about how to deliver your letter. Will you send it to post office? Leave it in his/her bag? Do you want to see when she/he reads your letter? If you want to see her/his reaction after reading your letter, it is better to hand it. For addition, you also can give a small gift in package with your letter. Your main focus is the letter not the gift, so make sure the gift doesn’t diminish the letter.

Well, that’s all my tips. Hope you get your ideas to write on your love letter.

Convey your love and get more love~

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3 Ways to Break the Silent Moment

Dating is important moment for us. We want all the things are perfect. But most of us forget one thing. What is it? It is . . . conversation ideas.

Yes, it is important part when dating. I am sure you have ever had silent moment when dating. And it always happens when you meet new person. In that time, you have already talked about your hobbies, your families and your jobs and nothing else come into your mind and she is not really helping you. Then it’s time for silent moment. You don’t know what you should talk about, neither her. Ouh … It’s so horrible~

Here, I give you some tips to avoid or get over these horrible moments. Sounds good?

Okay, check this out guys,

1. Compliment her

You have to remember that you are meeting new person. Of course, she will not share you everything in the beginning. So, the only one no risk thing to say is to compliment her. You try to make her know that you like her by making a compliment. But find something that you really find attractive about her, about her lifestyle or her personality. She will become more confident and more open to share her believes.

2. Asking open questions

Conversation is always related with questions. Which question will you use?

My favorites questions are “why” and “how” questions. Why I like these question tags? It’s because these will make your partner sharing their topic.  They will feel you are interested in what they tell about. You can use these frequently without being annoying.

It will be better if you learn a little about girls’ topic. You can explore about many topics and she will likely answer your questions. You also have to remember that you still need to think carefully what you can ask about. It will be worse if you ask wrong question about girls.

3. Listen, listen, and listen.

When you got her interest to talk, it’s really good time! But I am sure, you will don’t think so. How could it be?

Usually men don’t like to listen to the girl about what she talked about (they think it is boring). In this case, the girl starts sharing her interest to her men. It means she is comfortable to talk with him. But many men lose interest or bring the conversation back to themselves. This is one of the biggest mistake men are doing all the time.

They also like to exchange jokes and anecdotes and spend a fair amount of time playing one-up and boasting. Stop doing that!!!

Allow HER to have HER points of view, while you have yours. Men have felt like they have either had to abandon their own beliefs in order to try to get a woman, OR they had to fight with women about what they believe in. Both approaches lead to failure.

She is not there with you just to hear about your hero “qualities”, but to have a great time!

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