Have you ever had a problem with your anger? Even you broke
up because of it? Yes, it’s very common
that you break up because of angriness. Do you want it always happens? Of
course you don’t.
Here, I will give you the examples that really happened to me
(my real stories) about my angriness. I really want to share my story and tell
you the truth, so you can take the lessons from it and have a long-lasting
relationship. Sounds good?
My story is in long distance relationship, but I think every
couple can have the same problem. You know exactly how hard long distance relationship
is, it is really hard! It has lots of angriness, misunderstanding, lack of
trust, etc. Fortunately, I can handle it when I realized that angriness destroys
my relationship. Are you ready to read my story?
Well,
here is my story…
One day (I forgot about the date) I sent him a message on
viber. After few hours, he didn’t reply me yet. I was so worried, so I sent him
messages again and all over again. One more time, he didn’t reply me. I saw he
was online, but he didn’t reply me! Then I calmed myself down. I just kept my
mind positively, might he was busy.
One day two days was gone, he
still didn’t reply me. I was so worried about him! Then, I started to send him some
weird messages. I was so so so angry to him! These were my messages “why don’t
you reply me? I think you don’t like if I send you messages L”, “Okay, I will not
send you message anymore, even you never reply me!”. I sent those kinds of messages
again and again. After some time, he replied me! But what he said? He said “I
was busy baby, I am so sorry” “but if you don’t want to talk to me anymore, I
will go from your life”. Then he continued that he wanted to break me up.
I was shocked with his respond. The only reason I sent those messages was I
just wanted him to reply me, but I fell to this problem. Fortunately, I could
handle this problem and we didn’t break up. This problem really drove me to
break up. It was crazy!
I showed my angriness with hoping
he would calm me down or showering me lots of his attention. In fact, it NEVER
happens!
After I realized it, I changed the way I treat my boyfriend.
I am no longer angry to him, even if he doesn’t reply me or come online
sometime. I prefer to send him lovely messages than angry message. I sent this
message “I hope when I open my eyes, I see your messages”. Do you know what his
respond? He send me message “One thing don’t forget it I LOVE YOU”. So, it is
better for you to control your emotion. If you don’t like he does something,
you can tell him lovely. He will understand and even love you more.
Keep this on your mind and talk to yourself “BETTER IF I LOST
ARGUMENT THEN I LOST HIM”.
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