Do
you look for your husband-to-be from his money? Are you sure that it is the
most important part for your marriage life? Here I will tell you my story about
my wealthy man.
This
story is taken based on my own relationship. I accepted him because he is
wealthy. He is not so wealthy. He only has his own apartment, car and good position
in career (high salary). Some of you may think those are the minimum that man
should have before marriage. But I think differently!
Let’s
start the story . . .
I
was in the relationship with him because of his money and I thought I would
live well with him. I didn’t love him at first and I didn’t know him well. As
time goes by, I felt in love with him and he loved me too. But I still looked
at his money. In the first 3 months, he said that he would get promotion in his
career, even he would work abroad. It sounded good. I imagined that I wouldn’t live
poorly and will live in luxurious.
A
week after he told me that his apartment was burn because he forgot to turn off
the stove. Finally, he lost his apartment. Was it so bad? Yes I was so shocked
about it. A week after that, he was fired. He lost his job! I didn’t know what
happened. He was so depressed and so did I. I felt he broke my dream.
Unfortunately, he was so pessimistic, so he didn’t trust in himself that he
could face this problem. Finally, he lost everything because he broke me up. It
was really in the worst situation. I couldn’t do anything. I already motivated
him, but he kept his decision. Then we broke up.
I
felt that God’s punished me because I only looked at his money to accept his
love.
The
lesson that we can take from this story is money can go and come at any time.
Wealthy man will not always be wealthy man. He can lose his money at any time.
Even you can’t guarantee that he will always be wealthy. He may get fired or
bankrupt at any time. Who’s know?
So,
the conclusion is that you don’t need to look for a wealthy man, but you need
to look for high motivated man. Why
need a motivated man? wait until next post :).